Life does not require us to be consistent, cruel, patient, helpful, angry, rational, thoughtless, loving, rash, open-minded, neurotic, careful, rigid, tolerant, wasteful, rich, downtrodden, gentle, sick, considerate, funny, stupid, healthy, greedy, beautiful, lazy, responsive, foolish, sharing, pressured, intimate, hedonistic, industrious, manipulative, insightful, capricious, wise, selfish, kind or sacrificed......... Life does, however, require us to live with the consequences of our choices. I always valued and admired your choices and saw the results of them. I hope mine will be as valued as yours. Thanks for being a surrogate brother. I did act on the numerous advice you gave me, i just never found the time to tell you i used it, cheers mate! Neill